A train journey shows us the real India

Kindness on the road.

We meet many people on the road, both locals and travelers alike who help us in time of need or distress without expecting a return. Last week of every month I bring you stories from travelers who have experienced kindness on the road and like to share and spread it for the love of travel.
This month’s story has come from Prasad N P of India who takes us to a train journey.
Over to Prasad N P.
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Nobody has been a more avid traveler than Bapu Gandhi himself. When he came back from South Africa he decided to travel the length and breadth of our great nation. His chosen mode of travel? The Great Indian Railways.

While I am not Gandhi, I too love traveling by trains and there are many reasons for the same. The long journeys the bonhomie you develop with fellow passengers and the India you see from the train window can never be seen from a plane window.

My most cherished journeys have been in train. After marriage, my first travel with my wife was on a train to Vaishno Devi. You literally meet India in our trains, and I will never forget the kindness of strangers in trains during my journeys. From the waiter in Tinsukhiya express during a college trip to Sikkim who gave us extra Laddus in our thali to families carrying extra-large Tiffin box to feed strangers they meet on trains.

How many times you have heard these words?

Arey Don’t worry Bhai sahib we have extra, we always pack a little extra.”.
Yes, that is the spirit of our desi Travelers, they are always ready for any eventuality as I learned in one of my journeys.

I was traveling from Mumbai to Delhi in one of the longest train journeys on the route. The Mumbai Punjab Mail that takes one of the longest routes to reach Delhi and takes you through the heartland of India in Maharashtra and Madhya Pradesh.

Me and my friend were roaming around Baroda, Mumbai, Lonavala Khandala for more than 10 days and were totally exhausted by the time we boarded the train to go back home. When we started from Delhi about 10 days back our tickets were in Rajdhani and we did not pack any blankets as in AC trains you are provided with blankets. But in our return journey, we were in a non AC compartment but we did not feel the need of a blanket as Amchi Mumbai was at a balmy 32 degree Celsius even in December.

But as I mentioned we have been roaming in Maharastra and Gujarat for last ten days and were totally exhausted. Suddenly my body gave way to all the exertion and I felt weakness that I could not even climb to the upper birth that was allocated to me. My friend gave me a crosin but the fever will not be subsidized even after taking the medicine.

As we entered Madhya Pradesh temperature dropped suddenly and as we approached evening even after closing the window, bone-chilling drought kept on hitting me. I started wearing my T-shirts one over another but none of this helped.
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Soon it was evening and as the train was chugging towards Delhi with each passing Kilometer it was getting colder. We cursed ourselves for not bringing any blankets as the fever and cold air from the window was making me dizzy now and I was shivering.

Just as we were wondering what to do, one of the Sardarji who was in our compartment but in a different section, noticed me shivering and asked
“What happened to you ? You don’t seem to be OK “

I hardly had the energy to explain to him that I don’t have a blanket, but the wise Sardar jee immediately understood the story.

OK, you boys must have gone to Bombay to meet friends and no blanket, this is the problem with you youngsters”, he scolded us with the authority of a fatherly figure. But then just as he has appeared he vanished again, leaving me wondering what the fuss was about.

But about 10 minutes later Sardarjee appeared again, with two blankets in his hands.
He gave those blankets to us and told us. I went to everybody on the train and asked if anybody has a spare blanket. So one of the family had spare blankets they are in seat number 45, you can return the blankets in the morning. Now you boys should sleep.

As soon as I entered the cozy blanket with the warmth of strangers I started feeling better. I don’t know when I slept but I got up in the morning when my friend announced, “ Chalo get up now we are about to reach Delhi, let us return the blanket also”

I was feeling much better and went to the seat number 45 to return the blanket, only to find the same Sardarjee sitting there along with the family. In order to save me from cold and fever he has simply given his blanket to me while he slept in just his Shawl.
I could not believe somebody will be so kind that too for total strangers. Later on, as we chatted before the train reached Delhi, we learned that they were carrying one extra blanket, but as we were two friends he gave us two blankets one for each of us.
I have never met such kind folks ever, but then Travel is something that opens your eyes to the kindness of strangers. Bapu Gandhi was right when he said, “if you want to know India, travel by trains.”

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Prasad NP is based in Gurugram, NCR and is a passionate blogger. He primarily writes on family travel, automobile, lifestyle and photography at his blog Desi Traveler. Reading his blogs always teaches us something. A good human being with a great sense of humor.

You may want to read the earlier posts on the same theme.
Kindness on the Road
Surviving America
Good deed not dead!
Lost and found

If you have been helped by someone during your travels and want to share your story with the world, feel free to connect with me in comments section.

29 thoughts on “A train journey shows us the real India

  1. Did I tell you I love your kindness series and look forward to read it.
    Cant you make it a weekly?

    this story shows how Indians always help each other.

    1. Thank you Shreya. I can’t make it weekly as I don’t write posts daily and it might be the only post of the week. 😀

      I’ll convey this to the author. Thank you.

  2. Such a heart warming story Prasad! Loved it. Indeed, train journeys help us interact with so many strangers and be part of their stories. Thank you Nisha for curating this series! 🙂 I adore these lovely stories:)

  3. It is always said that travel shows us different phases of life and we get to learn so much during our journey and this is one true example! Good read Nisha 🙂

  4. Hello Nisha…probably this is my first visit to your space and truly enriched by the journey with the ever so gregarious Indians:)
    I am reminded of the train journeys that I undertook in my childhood from Kerala to Kashmir and to Amchi Mumbai in all summer vacations…please read my post https://adsunsri.wordpress.com/2016/10/26/the-chennai-local/ when you get time..it does strike a bell somewhere, the chord of bonhomie!

  5. I’ve been amazed over the years by the kindness of people on the road. I’ve been taken into homes in New Zealand and Italy and treated like family and the are memories which will stay with me forever.

  6. Hi Nisha Jee.. First of all thanks a lot for sharing this story on Lemonicks, indeed a very proud moment for me. Also many thanks for such a kind introduction about me.

    I was in Indonesia in remote islands when the post got published hence responding late, but would like to thank each of the people who have read and commented on the post. Indeed our world is full of kind folks and I am lucky to meet a few of them.

  7. It is the First Time i Read a full article here, it is a wonderful experience to share your travel with the world, you never know who would be benefited with your experience, i will make sure next onwards try to writeup my travel here.

  8. That’s the great part of travel. just when you think kindness does not exist, it does. Glad it worked out for

  9. I’ve read his blog before and loved it. Also, I understand the kindness you and him received because I have many Indian friends and they are the most hospitable people I know, especially when it comes to food – they’re always trying to fatten me up!

  10. What a heartwarming story; bless Sardarjee for sharing his blanket! Meeting kind strangers is definitely a highlight while traveling. When we were in Moalboal, our host invited us over for dinner and drove us to the city when we had to leave. Mind you, this drive took over 3 hours and he even treated us to a breakfast buffet once we got there!

  11. India is at the top of my list! I want to explore it so so badly! The kindness found when abroad is truly amazing- always makes me love the place just a little more 🙂

  12. Such a great story. I love travelling by train too when I have enough time and did meet nice strangers along the way although not as nice as those in the article!

  13. It’s a great story. It so nice to have kind people around you. Train travel seems to be good way to learn about the country. Thanks for sharing!

  14. The kindness of strangers never seizes to amaze me. I can imagine how cold you were and I know that misery all too well. I am glad you guys y=were finally able to warm up.

  15. As they say, you’ve only to look beyond the shade and you’ll be able to find the sun. Nice article. May Sardarji live long! 🙂

  16. Ahhh what a lovely story!! I am continually touched and amazed by the kindness of strangers, these days we so often hear terrible stories it is so nice to know that there are still wonderful kind people out there all over the world! You made me smile, thank you!!

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